tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-68256474915164185882023-11-16T16:09:44.699+00:00Sussex MethodistA Trip Post Candidating.Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.comBlogger95125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-32999445314822650782011-01-11T06:05:00.003+00:002011-01-11T06:26:39.077+00:00The light at the end of the tunnel<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgoowBVREoGdwX-ownHq3DbVBoNeMRJxSuH8_4a12O-_4Gvh085ZNQON6QN-JPVeH5qAYbi0V0BHlyE_2wcw2lokAOiN_V0Q2ZEkRFfE2IZp27K16rzDfi-USLvZb-SpRpcGS1cFoZIv1w/s1600/Tunnels_end.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 225px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgoowBVREoGdwX-ownHq3DbVBoNeMRJxSuH8_4a12O-_4Gvh085ZNQON6QN-JPVeH5qAYbi0V0BHlyE_2wcw2lokAOiN_V0Q2ZEkRFfE2IZp27K16rzDfi-USLvZb-SpRpcGS1cFoZIv1w/s400/Tunnels_end.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5560810946611758418" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">My first blog post was written on 17th July 2008, when I decided to blog my way through the Methodist Foundation Training and Candidating process. It served it's purpose well and provided a way for many friends to follow my progress and offer their encouragement and prayers. In fact it was such a good way for people to follow my journey that I decided to continue it after my acceptance as a Student Minister, it felt very right to finish sharing my training journey with those who had followed and supported me up till then.</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">It is now January 2011 and the light at the end of the tunnel has appeared!! A journey that started in April 2006 when I was Accepted 'on Note' as a Methodist Local preacher, is about to end another stage and change direction once again. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">The last five years have seen me start and finish Local preacher training, get accredited as a Methodist Local preacher, start and finish Methodist foundation training, candidate and be accepted for Presbyteral Ministry, finish three years of formal academic and ministerial studies and start the fourth and final one. I have done two big Church placements, three pioneer placement, two pastoral placements and explored and studied many other things without formal placement. It's a wonder I've had any time to write on here at all!! There is still much work to be done before the end of the academic year and concentrating on work and not getting "demob happy" will be my greatest challenge yet because.......................................................</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">A week ago the reward for all my hard work, sacrifices, busyness and stress was revealed with the results of the deliberations of the Methodist stationing committee. From the 1st of September 2011 I have been appointed and the Minister at Cheam Methodist Church, and one of a team of ministers at Epsom Methodist Church. It is great news, the appointment fits like a glove and is more than I could have hoped for in my dreams. My family and I will move to Epsom to begin the next chapter.</span></div><div><br /></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-83081753514153131052011-01-11T05:38:00.002+00:002011-01-11T05:53:26.216+00:002011 First Post<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1Kod1x4tByYtqWlR3ukDxVb1dfIunpT9dIPdKmwlBFzZnc2obDWp-GyOARuwQ-MwYyQsHtmnG_Cb0lY1ytQf-tlt5BSgHIk_gQd7S0TxwALjB1hcNVT2l1sfvF4WiL7_060Uf_D3AUR4/s1600/images.jpeg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 207px; height: 243px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1Kod1x4tByYtqWlR3ukDxVb1dfIunpT9dIPdKmwlBFzZnc2obDWp-GyOARuwQ-MwYyQsHtmnG_Cb0lY1ytQf-tlt5BSgHIk_gQd7S0TxwALjB1hcNVT2l1sfvF4WiL7_060Uf_D3AUR4/s400/images.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5560802374659039298" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">The first post of a new year, and typically ages since the last one!! However maybe this time I have a better excuse than usual. Eight weeks ago I underwent the second stage of a MACI operation to rebuild my knee, this was done using cells taken out during the first stage op and grown in a lab to create an implant. It is the second time I have had this done, the last time was about 5 years ago. It has been a very slow healing process, eight weeks on I still have a full length leg brace on for much of the time and am still restricted to walking with crutches. However my pain levels are already below the pre-op ones and all the early indications are that the procedure has been successful once again.</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">Having had two general anaesthetics in 6 weeks and large doses of pain killers, much of the last eight weeks has been somewhat hazy!! I now have large amounts of college work to catch up with and need to get back into a serious work routine as quickly as possible.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">It is now only 6 months till the end of my final year as a Student Minister, the next months are destined to be busy with college stuff and the end of year panic over deadlines. There is some other stuff going on as well - but I'll save that for a new post!!</span></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-47617396917543792702010-11-15T23:43:00.002+00:002011-01-11T05:38:04.681+00:00Time to rest<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhi6a2VabMIE1pwh949iNdQC5ujk_gR_nYMW3-0UHFIOY3vzR__eUL2HS7v8rUxoz2SvXIE9vMY2qELJgrpjsl3vFdQ4-LQfQv8_TmrheGh1EX8NzuLvPVnZH88yspm1c3wAPocvUV_7iw/s1600/DownloadedFile.jpeg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 191px; height: 144px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhi6a2VabMIE1pwh949iNdQC5ujk_gR_nYMW3-0UHFIOY3vzR__eUL2HS7v8rUxoz2SvXIE9vMY2qELJgrpjsl3vFdQ4-LQfQv8_TmrheGh1EX8NzuLvPVnZH88yspm1c3wAPocvUV_7iw/s400/DownloadedFile.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5560798231991707154" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">I am now counting down the days till the major reconstruction of my left knee, next Monday I have to be at the hospital for a 7am start and will be in for 7-10 days including my birthday. I am just beginning to get a little unsettled about it. Before then I have college to attend, a Bible study on Philippians 4 to write and lead, worship for Sunday to prepare and lead and a first aid course to teach, but my mind is definitely wandering back to the hospital everytime I try and concentrate on anything else.</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">I didn't publish this at the time but it makes a good link to my next post.</span></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-90022608350193369212010-09-29T03:09:00.003+01:002010-09-29T03:28:04.761+01:00Reflection on September<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVQhtKyCT0EHnExHwlzqaGZyMIDzNh2j97jUveoOTBr-tlJHBRSgzQHHXH9yCZuYG-Mb7Tq7nIRDJyism3I2PoEwll5OEhmqIcIirLFzzFjItOa81OLKuL4KXJOJxm-Wz1_IU-1d8tgTA/s1600/DownloadedFile.jpeg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 150px; height: 105px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVQhtKyCT0EHnExHwlzqaGZyMIDzNh2j97jUveoOTBr-tlJHBRSgzQHHXH9yCZuYG-Mb7Tq7nIRDJyism3I2PoEwll5OEhmqIcIirLFzzFjItOa81OLKuL4KXJOJxm-Wz1_IU-1d8tgTA/s400/DownloadedFile.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5522155080401491234" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">What a month - Joe started "big school", Ash left for Uni, Hana and I started final year studies. I'm back on placement this time in the Worthing circuit, very different from Dorset Gardens!! </span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">I am spending most of my time at Offington Park with James, one day a wek with my mentor Ian and about two or three sessions a month with Andrew. It has been fun working with each of them, they are very different and have very different styles of ministry, which has been a good reminder that it is such a personal calling.</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">I have helped at youth club, led a bible study, helped at "Church with a difference" taken out extended communion, been into school, been to Toddlers, washed up at a coffee morning, preached, led worship, attended the September=too many meetings, had regular reflective practice sessions and done some less formal reflections and above all met and chatted to loads of new people.</span></div></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">It has been great to be with a selection of supervisors and to be allowed time both to do and to be!!! I am really looking forward to the journey through Advent and Christmas with them all.</span></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-67105021506538923512010-09-20T08:49:00.004+01:002010-09-20T09:00:31.295+01:00All change<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQnO9wxxRprvmpcPzgPQj7CiCQd1zHgYhcf-bTR_XkLkpCnR_t6iUW43zOLJv5a6mNd-imJIeLgkkqZw3hcNhz7ALa8csngVMIw9U9JY8Lbdb_Qt_WJcJx1-1WH0MTWs15O-EPGgkQghA/s1600/Westtowers_000.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQnO9wxxRprvmpcPzgPQj7CiCQd1zHgYhcf-bTR_XkLkpCnR_t6iUW43zOLJv5a6mNd-imJIeLgkkqZw3hcNhz7ALa8csngVMIw9U9JY8Lbdb_Qt_WJcJx1-1WH0MTWs15O-EPGgkQghA/s400/Westtowers_000.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5518902044234510914" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">Wow, I knew it would be hard when the first of my children left home - but I was completely unprepared for how hard.</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">Yesterday we drove Ashleigh to Docklands and helped her sort out her new room, unpack all her things, fill in a host of forms, and start to settle into the new phase of her life. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">Then at back at home some bedroom moving took place as the other three settled into their new spaces and roles, Kate and Joe finally getting their own much needed space, and Hana realising that now she's the "BIG" one.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">I had had a few tears during the day, after a couple of loving messages from friends enquiring if I was ok, and as Ash hugged me to say goodbye, made harder by the tears of the others. But it was much later when the ache started as the enormity of what had happened hit me, things here will never be the same again.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">I hadn't realised that there would be an actual physical pain like a bereavement, and I was unprepared for the flood of tears that came. I thank God for the friends that stood with me in the dark moments last night, and today of course looks brighter with the dawn.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">Things won't be the same here again, but we will soon learn how to live with the changes.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">I'll finish for now with the words of the song that helped me through the pain, a prayer that all Christian parents have for their children. 'Find your Wings' by Mark Harris.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" border-collapse: collapse; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 18px; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; font-family:'trebuchet ms', verdana, arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" border-collapse: collapse; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 18px; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; font-family:'trebuchet ms', verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">It's only for a moment you are mine to hold<br />The plans that heaven has for you<br />Will all too soon unfold<br />So many different prayers I'll pray<br />For all that you might do<br />But most of all I'll want to know<br />You're walking in the truth<br />And if I never told you, I want you to know<br />That as I watch you grow<br /><br />Chorus:</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" border-collapse: collapse; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 18px; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; font-family:'trebuchet ms', verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">I pray that God would fill your heart with dreams<br />And that faith gives you the courage<br />To dare to do great things<br />I'm here for you whatever this life brings<br />So let my love give you roots<br />And help you find your wings<br /><br />May passion be the wind<br />That leads you through your days<br />And may conviction keep you strong<br />Guide you on your way<br />May there be many moments<br />That make your life so sweet<br />Oh, but more than memories<br /><br />chorus<br /><br />It's not living if you don't reach for the sky<br />I'll have tears as you take off<br />But I'll cheer as you fly<br /><br />chorus</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms', verdana, arial, sans-serif;font-size:100%;color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; line-height: 18px; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;font-size:13px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; line-height: 18px; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">I did indeed have tears as she took off, but will cheer the loudest as she begins to fly!!</span></span></span></span></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-12496685128219581952010-09-02T09:27:00.004+01:002010-09-02T09:49:01.085+01:00New Year<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnosufPjTRzQsXvEH9TA0xQZNJJyFNUC31tAy3rpcQkEQcZtLgMFMi6nrRXwZqV3TYbwBIvFWnt0Juncfe6QsXaEbnpakpmBI4L72sOrQDEt0dgicbRUTULBus0DMOyEJMVV4uR6g5gJo/s1600/images.jpeg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 274px; height: 184px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnosufPjTRzQsXvEH9TA0xQZNJJyFNUC31tAy3rpcQkEQcZtLgMFMi6nrRXwZqV3TYbwBIvFWnt0Juncfe6QsXaEbnpakpmBI4L72sOrQDEt0dgicbRUTULBus0DMOyEJMVV4uR6g5gJo/s400/images.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5512234645741780338" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Been a long time since I wrote in here again. A time really mixed, between rushed off my feet busy as I finished placements and college for the year, and really quiet and peaceful during the holidays. I caught up with several friends - many that I haven't seen since last summer holiday!! I watched many special friends get ordained (last ones this Saturday) and know that as I start my final year training it will be very different without my starting year group around for support. And I spent some very special times with the family, including the wettest holiday going to add to our memories of being together!!</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">September is going to be a time of great change in our house, today Kate started at Upper School and the beginning of the road to </span><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">GCSE's</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">, and my youngest started at senior school - no more little school and a very different phase in our lives. Hana starts her final year at college next week a year in which she has to make some quite big decisions about what she wants to do next, these are somewhat complicated by the fact that we are moving house next year as well.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">On the 19</span><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">th</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"> the biggest change to hit the family since Joe was born 11 years ago will happen, Ashleigh is leaving to start at East London University, I am very proud of her and love the young woman she has become - she will be missed by all of us and we must learn to live with a new family </span><span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">dynamic.</span></span></div><div><span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">This time next year I will start my new job, this year I have just started a new placement in the Worthing circuit - life is about to speed back up to frantic for a while I think and on top of everything I have to find time to fit in two operations and then recover from having my knee done.</span></span></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-77035224720558289372010-04-26T23:47:00.005+01:002010-04-27T23:23:52.352+01:00Direction, knees and DG<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdqsYZCjRBIdo_8crGer8m0CzYIuKZOtYhjpHeifeErdlH1VzAGNMCYJyr6mHrc-TVFY0MwNCyOOqYFzishoDqzRd1lQqNQh68a_Ppb7Vkdb95bv7QEo2QVx5oATzVKVRG_98UEgmqHRk/s1600/Jesus-Peter.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 290px; height: 343px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdqsYZCjRBIdo_8crGer8m0CzYIuKZOtYhjpHeifeErdlH1VzAGNMCYJyr6mHrc-TVFY0MwNCyOOqYFzishoDqzRd1lQqNQh68a_Ppb7Vkdb95bv7QEo2QVx5oATzVKVRG_98UEgmqHRk/s400/Jesus-Peter.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5464588547615055234" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Time to draw breath and catch up again, I am now three months into my placement at Dorset Gardens and am having a wonderful time, it is going so quickly and I will be sorry to say goodbye - I have met some very wonderful people, shared in the worship, fun and fellowship of the Church, I have led worship, played with the toddlers, had fun and made cards at art club, eaten tea at Cameo and drunk enough cups of tea to satisfy any Methodist Minister.</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">I have even met someone brave enough to take on the role of my Spiritual Director, we had our first meeting today which was great I feel much less guilty about things and I have been left with many things to reflect on this week.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">The news of the bionic knee grows more complicated, I have had a third of the graft removed as it had become loose, it is now incredibly painful, I have to go back to see the specialist in July to assess the pain and see if it has settled down, if it has then they think I will be able to live with the smaller version of the graft if it is still this bad then they will harvest a new set of cells and grow and insert a new implant. So it could be a complicated final year at college - good job I'm such a pro on the crutches after 32 years of knee trouble - but hopefully they will fix it before I'm stationed.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">The good news is that I only have 5 more pieces of work and one service to do before the end of term on June the 20th which is great because the last few months have been completely hectic and I could do with a few minutes to catch up with everyone</span></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-8143987280612738522010-02-12T00:47:00.002+00:002010-02-12T01:06:52.993+00:00First day<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhzSHNT_T97a3enK_5fAuDkK_ss-dgqILJYNdGKc_H9zbv9hIG8-XHbEMwzxfNfYekvh3yQSYGF2taVJDwHeFe-PMY6kr2fHeja-82TFDRuN7OFA22Ot_MP9AOrp0Dzpzarv2gDlBm8qs/s1600-h/images.jpeg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 121px; height: 107px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhzSHNT_T97a3enK_5fAuDkK_ss-dgqILJYNdGKc_H9zbv9hIG8-XHbEMwzxfNfYekvh3yQSYGF2taVJDwHeFe-PMY6kr2fHeja-82TFDRuN7OFA22Ot_MP9AOrp0Dzpzarv2gDlBm8qs/s400/images.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5437157010681830066" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">I started my placement today at Dorset Gardens Methodist Church - what a joy to be in a place of true inclusivity - a Church where all are truly welcomed and shown that God loves them. Never before (I'm sad to admit) have I been to a Church that lives out what it preaches in such an obvious way. Today I joined in with the parent and toddler group, attended the Midweek Prayer service, went to the Brighton University Art College Chaplaincy, and spent a while at the Art club. I met some fascinating people and am looking forward to the next 4 months there. </span>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-34621921464620713222010-01-30T23:55:00.002+00:002010-01-31T00:19:42.026+00:00Busy couple of weeks again<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCCQNp-FMuKYWsGh4Fs7dtSRRo8y4oHgV7cKg2sHqPA-P3jre8r2HWke_KoYsCkPQwCzAort8KrbrhIvbL20JIx6kZu__Rry6ck8RVx6W-rMqE2kI1NVwns_Bi1XPz8fcdfAhwBaI64iE/s1600-h/znchurch.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 378px; height: 206px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCCQNp-FMuKYWsGh4Fs7dtSRRo8y4oHgV7cKg2sHqPA-P3jre8r2HWke_KoYsCkPQwCzAort8KrbrhIvbL20JIx6kZu__Rry6ck8RVx6W-rMqE2kI1NVwns_Bi1XPz8fcdfAhwBaI64iE/s400/znchurch.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5432691935541690498" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">I seem to spend my life trying to slow down and take things a bit easier and then I end up writing on here that it's been really busy and I've had no time to write. Since the day of the scan, it has been all go again as I try to finish another college assignment - the write up to my pastoral placement, before I start my next placement in March. Three months at Dorset Gardens Methodist Church in Brighton. I have three more services to take beforehand -</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Tomorrow I am at Uckfield - talking about Jeremiah following his call, being chosen before he was born and how God wants us all to be more confident about our skills and gifts rather than saying - "I can't do that......." and offering a heap of excuses.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Someone once told me that we should start by preaching to ourselves and I think that tomorrow's sermon is one aimed as much at me as any member of the congregation.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">I am at my own Church on Valentines Day and at Cafe Luke on Feb 19th with a talk called '25 things to do for Lent instead of giving up Chocolate"</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Hopefully February will be a bit quieter that January - because I need to get some work done, and once the bathroom is all in next week, it will need decorating before the new flooring arrives.</span></div><div><br /></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-70291485386039819622010-01-19T00:58:00.002+00:002010-01-19T01:22:24.071+00:00London Again<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhVp8A3e1lRP4b9HpCYX7owvd7QvHsY_LyTz9lmbQIME0GnaowP-rihjcvMHyvV_lgpS5RQyX5EF8xBVO6d3BrExNAG7tOLxQSDrKH-7wVRO6f90BWapqe5HBfLjDC8Q-yvzQ0nOP-1SUA/s1600-h/briggs_287388t.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 204px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhVp8A3e1lRP4b9HpCYX7owvd7QvHsY_LyTz9lmbQIME0GnaowP-rihjcvMHyvV_lgpS5RQyX5EF8xBVO6d3BrExNAG7tOLxQSDrKH-7wVRO6f90BWapqe5HBfLjDC8Q-yvzQ0nOP-1SUA/s400/briggs_287388t.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428255091597790866" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Today I went for a second MRI scan on my broken bionic knee, as the one taken in Eastbourne was not in the right direction!! So I travelled to Stanmore to have it done the other way!! I left home at 11.30 and got back at 9 all for a 40 minute scan. The RNOH was just as spooky as I remember it being when I was there for my operation although it did seem to have endless work going on. When I got there I was told they were running half an hour late and did I want to go and get a coffee - I found a really old fashioned "cafe" just like the WRVS ones used to be before they were themed up. The elderly volunteer made me a black coffee "be careful dear it's hot!!" and a strange cheese and ham toasted sandwich in a strange bag!! </span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Knee pictures are safely done though and now I have to wait to see the big guy next month to see the results.(that's him in the picture!) Back to London tomorrow!!</span></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-92101402968170759332010-01-18T00:15:00.004+00:002010-01-18T00:35:50.276+00:00Back at the GCC<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfTUlU8SbxSJYQi_l0FbpB8AlYMLK_sfCAnIxwVK7TZtDjnNFDqEz5TqZf9RN4bnv3PsUt-MNeA9yuK6q1sRLiJhJ9vx7wZ6uFNF3aP5K4_IH0vwGpEkSyKMbreBjkUkUvkRzRKGSazDY/s1600-h/CHfromgarden.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 354px; height: 269px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfTUlU8SbxSJYQi_l0FbpB8AlYMLK_sfCAnIxwVK7TZtDjnNFDqEz5TqZf9RN4bnv3PsUt-MNeA9yuK6q1sRLiJhJ9vx7wZ6uFNF3aP5K4_IH0vwGpEkSyKMbreBjkUkUvkRzRKGSazDY/s400/CHfromgarden.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5427871604705686610" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">The Methodist Cohort met this weekend - a group designed to gather together the Part time students in our area who attend Anglican institutes to learn some just Methodist stuff and have a chance to discuss some of the joys and hardships of training as a minority group. It was really good to catch up with old friends, but very strange to be back at the Guy Chester Centre without the rest of my Foundation Training group - Methodist weekends are always less pressure than </span><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">SEITE</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"> ones as there are no essays </span><span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">attached</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"> and there is as much emphasis put on socialising, talking, praying and walking alongside each other as on formal lessons. It seems a shame that we are only meeting twice a year, but it is nice that the Church have recognised some of the added pressures of training part time and funded something to help. We did do some work - some reflective practice and some Methodist history.</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Today I led the evening service at Greenfield, only three more services (well two really and speak at Cafe Luke) to do before I go on placement in the Brighton and Hove circuit in March (can't wait!!) </span></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-61590399223490044242010-01-13T08:45:00.003+00:002010-01-13T11:13:22.941+00:00More snow<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEixXJezzavH4TNSxErGQ_c6SVROiUNBq9W6Xh-STkGhNr7bdTslDJ8SUevaS6hcC7O17266zxXL1EVjY_rlpyTzipUTHWPSW8cOPRKFfZmW642-_OSYNTtgW8oD5ADzXNYogg-0i8mvbAE/s1600-h/Snow-Clad-Trees-thumb.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 288px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEixXJezzavH4TNSxErGQ_c6SVROiUNBq9W6Xh-STkGhNr7bdTslDJ8SUevaS6hcC7O17266zxXL1EVjY_rlpyTzipUTHWPSW8cOPRKFfZmW642-_OSYNTtgW8oD5ADzXNYogg-0i8mvbAE/s400/Snow-Clad-Trees-thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5426180446026596274" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;">Just as life was beginning to get back to normal and the colour of the world was reappearing, we have overnight had another heavy snowfall and the disruption of normal life continues. Joe's school is shut again, Kate's is too, my study lesson is back to email - which isn't as good for getting things going! </span></span></span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;">Yesterday in the clear, thawed bit of the week I went to college and my train broke down and was stuck just outside Cooksbridge for 2 hours in the cold and dark - friends on the </span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;">two trains behind all got to London quicker than I did, it took me four hours in total.</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;">My weekend away looks uncertain - unless we get another thaw, but it hasn't stopped snowing yet!!</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(128, 128, 128); font-family:'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;font-size:11px;"><h3 class="GenericStory_Message" ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-weight: normal; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000099;">Thoughts and prayers are with all those affected by the earthquake in Haiti! </span></span></span></h3></span></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-23175750378855672232010-01-09T00:42:00.003+00:002010-01-09T01:13:58.938+00:00Snow and stuff<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh50ZWtyliecszXbzpLi53YbqhuqX6pWLLDB5_kTIF67MTzOp-m8rZ-ATb2iyNbx77lUvYfOzMmz6VPuUYVeeFdUwjHhcZ_jEx8HiMXsSG5L3cGxC6oFddExmgGrzOCEBf2TrYFnHdkGU0/s1600-h/19431_239667233650_662768650_3420676_7036224_n.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh50ZWtyliecszXbzpLi53YbqhuqX6pWLLDB5_kTIF67MTzOp-m8rZ-ATb2iyNbx77lUvYfOzMmz6VPuUYVeeFdUwjHhcZ_jEx8HiMXsSG5L3cGxC6oFddExmgGrzOCEBf2TrYFnHdkGU0/s400/19431_239667233650_662768650_3420676_7036224_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5424542055135444866" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">It's been a strange week because it's been completely disrupted by the snow, the children have all been off school and college again on what has just felt like an extension of the Christmas holidays. Monday and Tuesday they went back and they have been home ever since. It wasn't a great help with the essay writing, but it is all done now and safely posted, whether it gets there or not is a different matter we've had no post for three days so far! </span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">Tracey and I are doing the worship next Tuesday at SEITE and that has all had to be done by email, we were supposed to have a meeting Thursday to do it. The reunion of our Methodist training group has been cancelled, as was homegroup, coffee morning and my study lesson (essay was checked by email) so apart from sitting here writing I haven't done anything, I haven't been anywhere (except a brief trip to Morrisons today with Keith)and apart from Keith and the children I haven't seen anyone.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">I have a reflection on people's behaviour at Christmas, and a service to write this week as well as a weekend in London for the Methodist Cohort. Hopefully either the weather will improve or we will learn to just carry on despite it - the holidays were nice but term time is nice too for very different reasons - some normality back would be good.</span></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-11083310842422540212010-01-06T01:38:00.003+00:002010-01-06T01:52:10.753+00:00New Year<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';">The new windows are in(and the house has warmed up again), Joe is now 11 (even the cake turned out ok in the end), the decorations are down (just the outside lights to do tomorrow) and packed away for another year. The essay is nearly done just needs some editing with Julie tomorrow and the children are safely back at school (well for now, the snow may change that!) All the excitement and build up and Christmas is over and done with and the New Year has started. I have been to my two favourite services of the year this week (it seems a shame they come so close together) New Year's Eve we had a Watchnight service and Sunday was our annual Covenant service, both services are very Methodist and always give me a great sense of belonging and a feeling of what it means to be Connexional. </span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';">The Covenant prayer has become so much more real over the last few years as I have been training.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; "><p class="normal" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';">'I</span></span><img height="133" alt="A covenant with God" hspace="8" width="200" align="right" border="1" src="http://www.methodist.org.uk/images/god_covenantlge_0207.jpg" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; " /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"> am no longer my own but yours.<br />Put me to what you will,<br />rank me with whom you will;<br />put me to doing,<br />put me to suffering;<br />let me be employed for you,<br />or laid aside for you,<br />exalted for you,<br />or brought low for you;<br />let me be full,<br />let me be empty,<br />let me have all things,<br />let me have nothing:<br />I freely and wholeheartedly yield all things<br />to your pleasure and disposal.<br />And now, glorious and blessed God,<br />Father, Son and Holy Spirit,<br />you are mine and I am yours"</span></span></p><div><br /></div></span></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-4161764654847493872010-01-03T23:35:00.002+00:002010-01-04T00:06:07.876+00:00Wii<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzQUJQNKWgpLGIW3KqRoh_59EUpZ34VtJOIm_Jbsl4eWkFMNJPiTEq6C-tbzvDA7uABlegSse2RpSQKwzEil6QY56EYWPCoq8sIOurj8AB9CmwvcUmNEjEuTjw4U3q-Uuo0tbUY9GMqrU/s1600-h/Kids+Playing+Wii.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzQUJQNKWgpLGIW3KqRoh_59EUpZ34VtJOIm_Jbsl4eWkFMNJPiTEq6C-tbzvDA7uABlegSse2RpSQKwzEil6QY56EYWPCoq8sIOurj8AB9CmwvcUmNEjEuTjw4U3q-Uuo0tbUY9GMqrU/s400/Kids+Playing+Wii.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5422669112360971586" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Several people sent me money for Christmas some rather unexpected and I decided to treat myself and the children by buying a Wii. It is incredibly good fun and has given us another thing to do together. I really am very blessed to have such a lovely bunch of children, they all join in and have fun whatever we are doing and it has been nice to be able to treat them a bit - they have all sacrificed a lot during my training both in time and in material things. The Christmas holidays have been real fun - I love having my children around and enjoy catching up a bit with my wider family. This year I may see a bit more of them my cousin will be 40 and Ashleigh is going to be 18 and I think they are both planning parties then in October my Mum will be 60 and I think she might be persuaded to have one too!!</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Tomorrow the business of life returns - the children go back to School/college and I return to studying. Three of the windows in our house are being replaced(so today I had to take some of the bathroom tiles off) and some last minute things need doing before Joe's birthday on Tuesday - like making a cake!! - and wrapping the presents!!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">I took the Christmas tree down today but Joe would like the lights left up for his birthday, so they are still up - it was nice to get a bit of clearing up done though there is plenty more to go hopefully in between essay writing some of it may get done this week as my diary is quite busy for January already!!(no surprise there then!)</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">I have a new book for my Bible reading it's called "Purr-ables from Heaven" and is devotions for cat lovers - today's reading looked at curling up on God's lap when things get tough and taking time to rest - so that's what I'm going to do - night all x</span></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-58609092236779486992009-12-24T01:43:00.003+00:002009-12-24T02:12:16.046+00:00Cooking with the children<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh42ncFRbVldBOA9bytDfKxyRPbTWNHtmk9V7Q8_J72i34FXejMJtGH_yfeecNq_IHxoKOFTZdl69fuQZwHHebBMBW1xgphvnT9makpqtXn5SqVWbtYiunTLSn1i4Brtwjb07kKCOyf_cs/s1600-h/SuperStock_1538R-56646.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 248px; height: 350px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh42ncFRbVldBOA9bytDfKxyRPbTWNHtmk9V7Q8_J72i34FXejMJtGH_yfeecNq_IHxoKOFTZdl69fuQZwHHebBMBW1xgphvnT9makpqtXn5SqVWbtYiunTLSn1i4Brtwjb07kKCOyf_cs/s400/SuperStock_1538R-56646.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5418613040604375330" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Today the children have been making their Christmas presents for the family - except Joe who has all of his done.</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Ashleigh has made chocolate orange cookies and bags to put them all in, Hana has made Rocky Road cakes and decorated boards for them to go on, Katie has made vanilla fudge - milk and dairy free, which needs wrapping tomorrow. Needless to say this has required some supervision, some help, a large amount of clearing up and has taken all of my day.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">This evening we had pizza, and watched the final Santa Claus.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">It has been great to spend the whole day with my children, having fun. The hymn numbers and readings are done for Sunday and this evening I finished the last of the wrapping ( I know I have claimed that before, but there were some last minute bits still to do)</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">My advent reflection today is about seeing things from someone else's point of view, which is just what I am planning on talking about Sunday morning - It was enough to help me believe that I'm going the right way with Sunday's service - a kind of God confirmation, and we can all do with plenty of those.</span></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-35123879798308145132009-12-23T09:37:00.004+00:002009-12-24T01:41:14.053+00:00Being listened to<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhF742LKFFVNybeDr-4ld1f_RY0HsSASfe3qK8ngUJNuUZkENNCYFM_Q_yaaHfIi0krK0daNZRXR9elk3MKYv4QNbAvuWQASWjIvra1MPxMhklhOa8aalnQWdd3rHYyxoDhDszHvJumGmw/s1600-h/ear_drawing_1.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 229px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhF742LKFFVNybeDr-4ld1f_RY0HsSASfe3qK8ngUJNuUZkENNCYFM_Q_yaaHfIi0krK0daNZRXR9elk3MKYv4QNbAvuWQASWjIvra1MPxMhklhOa8aalnQWdd3rHYyxoDhDszHvJumGmw/s320/ear_drawing_1.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5418611685579365714" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">A bit late for a Tuesday blog, but my blogs often look like they are on a different day than I say they are because it's past midnight. After 20 minutes trying to find a parking space at Holmbush, I had a lovely meeting with my Mentor Ian - he always helps to put things back into perspective and focus back on the bigger issues - I'm don't know if he realises just how useful our chats are to me. It's great to have someone to listen and help sort things out in my head - someone who understands the way things are for me right now.</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">The afternoon was a bit of a mix up - some crossed wires I think!! It did however give me a bit of time to get on with some stuff for Sunday's service. The Hymn numbers and readings are due in Wednesday so I need to be at least that far.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">The evening was the second part of the traditional Santa film watching in our house. Things have calmed down considerably, and if I could just shift this cold, that I have been avoiding all month, and have finally gone down with since I slowed down, Christmas is looking good.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><br /></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-89380001324380618292009-12-21T23:45:00.002+00:002009-12-21T23:57:51.340+00:00missed two<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIhKKiYn0rOk9qDhsObt2FN5b-KeY4Ww9HTLoho23595NpYstQmz7EEO_TNR4MSQ_YcjcdyXNGZSDXG7p65s8lQuSAqvgk6SNxNlhHEzevv2gPeDbAZgCL0wlinLL3bbdsu5fNaYVU43g/s1600-h/s667201926_1621955_3783.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 130px; height: 110px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIhKKiYn0rOk9qDhsObt2FN5b-KeY4Ww9HTLoho23595NpYstQmz7EEO_TNR4MSQ_YcjcdyXNGZSDXG7p65s8lQuSAqvgk6SNxNlhHEzevv2gPeDbAZgCL0wlinLL3bbdsu5fNaYVU43g/s400/s667201926_1621955_3783.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5417842958461418562" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">Haven't written for two nights - not much has happened really, Saturday shopping then home with the family. Sunday church then Christmas dinner with Keith's Mum. All very nice but nothing to really write about and today was much the same, Beryl's hair, shopping, helping Joe and Kate with their presents then the annual Chinese and Santa Claus with the whole family.</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">You see, just calm normal life - so very nice.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">I still have a service to prepare for Sunday, a meeting with my mentor, two funerals and a 3000 word essay for January on my "to-do" list but I can see then end of it for once. I don't like to speak too soon but after the January essay deadline the rest of the month looks quite quiet.</span></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-39891072187472673492009-12-18T23:25:00.003+00:002009-12-19T01:42:24.016+00:00Swan Lake, funerals and Christmas TV<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjF6zuMPmX6zLCRPM4tl6sg3L3n5IMH5FXIUZKIcJR_BvZMHYdi4yYfcSk2oa8TdCj6RRHN6ymjuyvgNX-RBdK5BJ9mEGqEQ8etLAa9mD3ybJEv7mU7RwPF2lCZtYN5tjDYQuc1HY1Qxmc/s1600-h/W020070730299102210904.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 273px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjF6zuMPmX6zLCRPM4tl6sg3L3n5IMH5FXIUZKIcJR_BvZMHYdi4yYfcSk2oa8TdCj6RRHN6ymjuyvgNX-RBdK5BJ9mEGqEQ8etLAa9mD3ybJEv7mU7RwPF2lCZtYN5tjDYQuc1HY1Qxmc/s400/W020070730299102210904.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5416756560491258946" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">Today I woke to a bunch of excited children as there was a good covering of snow outside and the schools were shut. Kate and Joe went off into the garden for the first snowball fight of the day. </span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">This afternoon I met with Tricia to have a lesson in funerals - we've got two in the next two weeks, it was great I learned loads and am very grateful to her - these are the bits of training that I think the Methodist Church is very bad at. </span><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">SEITE</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"> is quite good at the funeral stuff and our next Module is on </span><span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">Occasional</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"> offices, but some of the Methodist bits are different and that never gets tackled at college, so I am grateful for Methodist friends who give up their time to help.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">This evening I went to Eastbourne to see Swan Lake which was great - it is one of my favourites and so beautiful.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">Now I have discovered that sky have a channel called Christmas 24 which is one Christmas film after another, and am currently watching a musical version of A Christmas carol. My Advent reflection today was about being confident that God is with us when we struggle, and backing us up even when we are not conscious of it.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">My final thought this morning as it is now twenty to two is this:</span></div><div></div><span><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br />Your Time: Look for ways to help those who cannot help themselves<br />Your Love: Give love freely to those who need it most and deserve it least<br />Your Life: Your life was a gift to you from God; make it a gift from God to others<br />Your Lord: Jesus is the greatest gift of all. Introduce him to a friend.</span></span></span><div><div></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">(from A Stocking full of Christmas compiled by Mark Stibbe)</span></div><div><br /></div></div><div> </div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-70642988733458137882009-12-18T00:42:00.003+00:002009-12-18T00:58:09.111+00:00Knees<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhs81cyLRmC4cN8kpGa3ZidgGZVJB6thGy7QmAsB8-qM-Gq1Ozdyc0w87kHqyE9J2Zrl3aS6hY-aCj3kAsiTIDeLnwyU-rVhdS5d9mMlyMpP1vzHAYvPBFqaEBBBZdYQeakSDcAMME8TEY/s1600-h/knees.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhs81cyLRmC4cN8kpGa3ZidgGZVJB6thGy7QmAsB8-qM-Gq1Ozdyc0w87kHqyE9J2Zrl3aS6hY-aCj3kAsiTIDeLnwyU-rVhdS5d9mMlyMpP1vzHAYvPBFqaEBBBZdYQeakSDcAMME8TEY/s400/knees.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5416374088605624018" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Today I went to London to visit my knee specialist - I had to wait ages because I always have to see the boss because the ACI operation was his invention - it was weird a bit like catching up with a friend I haven't seen for 5 years, he even asked how the children were and if I had qualified as a Minister yet!</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">The news on my knee wasn't quite so great though, I have to go up to Stanmore and have some specialised tests and then go back to London to see Mr Briggs in February, more waiting, more patience and more pain.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">I managed to get to Regent Street on the way and stopped at the Apple store to get my Birthday Present from my Mum - a very nice red, phone cover which is really an external battery it's pretty and serves a useful purpose too - thanks Mum.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">My Advent reflection today was about accepting people even if they are different from us, just as Jesus did.</span></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-6820135721560064792009-12-16T22:40:00.003+00:002009-12-16T23:32:33.710+00:00Silver bands and curly hair<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpcDXsAP8moWFjR0PR0WvqM9HgHXer3Hyf1DZ2F2aEFfPMPM0mhVRSeraX49tdv_LxNKtDwZFiaqsvQ7wxYQuv6hlvu6DZGD0zkH6nAb7duC4ekapJb3bw8NXFZnlQ7OigVyEYBw-aD7M/s1600-h/Peebles~Silver~Band~003.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpcDXsAP8moWFjR0PR0WvqM9HgHXer3Hyf1DZ2F2aEFfPMPM0mhVRSeraX49tdv_LxNKtDwZFiaqsvQ7wxYQuv6hlvu6DZGD0zkH6nAb7duC4ekapJb3bw8NXFZnlQ7OigVyEYBw-aD7M/s400/Peebles~Silver~Band~003.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5415980817692735234" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJSLo-6KF5quEWw3MZiJkYGNUaOl5CebYQmCxsQfrFN0o-V5XfhD4Ms9Yz8ts-6ok7y9Rz60KOK-l44KBg6KKX2C984N0EGC1k7Ulq325e1cxLraUqcodCQmVLDt4p7ENhGaNG6WCRpx8/s1600-h/images.jpeg"></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">I have spent much of today setting my essay into some sort of reasonable order and it now seems to have a firm structure, about half of it is now actually written and the other half is well on the way. It has been a productive day's writing and although the deadline isn't till the twelfth of January, it would be really nice to at least get a first draft of the whole thing done before Christmas.</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">I did stop for long enough this morning to have my hair permed - in a desperate attempt to make it a bit easier to manage everyday. It seems to be </span><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">ok</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"> so far and hopefully it will be easier </span><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">longterm</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">This evening I went with Joe to the Community Silver Band Carol service, one of my favourites - so there have been many reflections on the reason for the season at that. My advent study today was about remembering to lean on God. About reflecting on the strength and </span><span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">vulnerability</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"> of God incarnate. All of this fits well with my essay which is on the Doctrine of the Incarnation and leads me full circle to where I started.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><br /></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-4612872493844157782009-12-15T23:16:00.002+00:002009-12-15T23:38:01.058+00:00Cyril v Nestorius<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKmxAXGQ1GkBJZg_q8rLi_Q6ib3EZVjTExOYF7Yp0GPgKT8kukMcSpg1hvzx-GJ4xnO3NIclgMxIFArBY6cofYail_BRl-tq8Dd0hPYj1_NHSOyRCrZf3XqlWYJC2VX8Y_Ugo1Hg-lcS8/s1600-h/images.jpeg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 150px; height: 105px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKmxAXGQ1GkBJZg_q8rLi_Q6ib3EZVjTExOYF7Yp0GPgKT8kukMcSpg1hvzx-GJ4xnO3NIclgMxIFArBY6cofYail_BRl-tq8Dd0hPYj1_NHSOyRCrZf3XqlWYJC2VX8Y_Ugo1Hg-lcS8/s400/images.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5415611286080953602" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Wow what a day - I went to college early to take part in a Fourth century debate, which was part of this modules assignment, it was my job to sum up it's relevance to 21st century theology - I think it went ok, it felt like it did. And because my group had gone in early, I was home from college by 7 which felt like I had been given an extra evening.</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Inspired by the extra time, my study skills lesson tomorrow and by the fact that the debate is over, I carried on working (well it is college night!) and have now set out the first 600 words of my next assignment, about the Doctrine of the Incarnation and written my blog before midnight!!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">In the morning I am having my hair done, then I must get the next few words done before my lesson (hopefully another 1000 or so) - the more I have done, the more productive the lesson is. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">From a reflecting point of view today's Advent reading was also about God becoming incarnate - God loves us enough to come and share in the struggles and joys of being human. And maybe more importantly we don't need to change to be loved.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">We are encouraged to:</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Rejoice in the encouragement God give us to accept ourselves just as we are, and</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Remember to remind ourselves regularly that GOD LOVES ME!!</span></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-6922094386820531842009-12-15T01:55:00.003+00:002009-12-15T02:18:20.837+00:00Taking the choir out<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfDqsUmEZzmJoFlJ-5oXY5-sSyb6TwOyHbj6DZ1It7msIVnWPbWx-h0WzwTOgZu-sXJmh1BLX0sdWOoIVY5m2Hp_ymQqqk5e6AvaT2y92PcGcUuCZIb_4NaysNOWFm5euZrVDMAbLuGn0/s1600-h/images.jpeg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 102px; height: 114px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfDqsUmEZzmJoFlJ-5oXY5-sSyb6TwOyHbj6DZ1It7msIVnWPbWx-h0WzwTOgZu-sXJmh1BLX0sdWOoIVY5m2Hp_ymQqqk5e6AvaT2y92PcGcUuCZIb_4NaysNOWFm5euZrVDMAbLuGn0/s400/images.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5415281519317463074" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Not done much today - this morning I played chauffeur to seven members of Joe's school choir who were going to a residential care home for the elderly to put on their Christmas show - it seemed to be appreciated by staff and residents alike. I had a great surprise on my return home, a very unexpected but most welcome Christmas gift in a card from some dear friends. </span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">This afternoon I shopped and cooked, and then finished the present wrapping - so I would like to officially announce that today - on the 15th of December I am ready for Christmas!!! - good job really I have plenty else to keep me occupied!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">This evening I watched "My Sisters Keeper" with my big girls as the little two were out at the BB Christmas party - needed the tissues!! Lots!! I did however get some good stuff about donor babies from it that I think I can use in my essay (this was, of course, the real reason for watching it!!)</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">My Advent reading today was about being places you don;t want to be and finished with the words:</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Remember - just because I don't know where I'm going doesn't mean God doesn't.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Resolve - to look out, when I'm not where I want to be, for good reasons for being where I am.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">and on that note, and at 2:14 I will say goodnight.</span></div><div><br /></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-77096303944728563312009-12-13T23:40:00.004+00:002009-12-13T23:56:27.250+00:00Gaudete Sunday<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiuV2_6hAVEgvqiN02HlmzFrxbPIVu7AsbS9asAsWlKEX4BEUBxlolDrGBf-0137wlvojrnnc0zcT4EfM-eHg37sdzHU8JXgFjNWQsOjY5Cu6J9_X19N1JNHLgw2xC_QAmH7QgCiE33byw/s1600-h/images.jpeg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 147px; height: 64px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiuV2_6hAVEgvqiN02HlmzFrxbPIVu7AsbS9asAsWlKEX4BEUBxlolDrGBf-0137wlvojrnnc0zcT4EfM-eHg37sdzHU8JXgFjNWQsOjY5Cu6J9_X19N1JNHLgw2xC_QAmH7QgCiE33byw/s400/images.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5414873550672018146" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">Today hasn't seemed that busy, but I do seem to have got a lot done (I like days like that - it's the ones that are really busy and you get nothing achieved that I don't like much!) This morning I went to listen to one of the most inspirational preachers on our circuit who talked about Rejoicing in God - which is very apt because today is Gaudete (or rejoicing) Sunday - the third Sunday in Advent which is marked with wearing rose coloured vestments instead of the normal purple of Advent, and in contrast to the other more somber readings of the season which show the need for penitence, the readings on the third Sunday emphasise the joyous anticipation of the Lord's coming.</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">Keith and I spent the afternoon in Intenso, drinking tea and writing Christmas cards - and got them all done!! (this is my very worst job of Christmas and I am so pleased it's done) </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">Then we went to St Luke's to see Joe do Herod again - still a bit smiley for someone who thought his whole world was being challenged!!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">This evening Han and I watched Elf - she and I do films together as our time together - and now she's big she even makes the tea!!</span></div><div>All in all a good day!</div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6825647491516418588.post-62733233447500539412009-12-12T22:07:00.004+00:002009-12-12T22:23:00.378+00:00Be still<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgbJsxomo00BRGNVr-i1UjJ7rUzSN2t7cbHQyR_aWRd_GjlICGcTT9xBJObUfa5g-1lE47ch_xAZ4BZzo2-86RD0yFRElpLH4AIXJoLAUHJJRowqjYnxgfPHOsntNKosYdecGpSDynPLNw/s1600-h/images.jpeg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 121px; height: 120px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgbJsxomo00BRGNVr-i1UjJ7rUzSN2t7cbHQyR_aWRd_GjlICGcTT9xBJObUfa5g-1lE47ch_xAZ4BZzo2-86RD0yFRElpLH4AIXJoLAUHJJRowqjYnxgfPHOsntNKosYdecGpSDynPLNw/s400/images.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5414478706745157794" /></a><br /><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">My advent reading today talks about being able to see God's long term plan for our lives, to view our lives as part of a longer term project and trusting God to be master of that plan we would be able to approach our lives in a less frenetic way. This whole weeks readings have been about being still and waiting. I am drawn again to a message I need to hear often -"Be still and know that I am God"</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Today I had a very funny note from Sheila on my facebook page - she reckons that I should make a New Year's resolution to go to bed on the day I get up!! At the moment I seem much better at getting up on the day I go to bed!!</span></div>Nik Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10374064087864894027noreply@blogger.com0